Into the mind of a J-girl

So I go to this gal MA's party, this is a gal who was hot for our old friend Booby when she met him 6 months ago. Some other expat gals I know where there.

Well that part was not too exciting. But I go and run into 3 girls from the past.

First up, the rack. She is a gal Vig met at a party and apparently she is friends w/ the VB gals so good thing Vig didn't try to hit that. Funny thing is she was wearing the same shirt I saw her last time in! Damn that is like the 3rd girl we've known that is always wearing the same damn clothes all the time. One gal Gay wore virtually the same outfit like 4 times in a row and we are talking different days of the week, venues, etc but always same outfit. I think 5th time we caught her offguard and she had a different top on, but same jeans. Whats up, tokyo girls u need more clothes.

Next I see our old secretary duo M&M as we cross paths going in/out of the elevator and they both scream when we all realize its me. Funny I was laughing getting into the elevator thinking shit, these girls again.. I seem to see them all the time and Tokyo is a big town.

Anyways there is big-M and little-m. M I notice reminds me of J-Kado from HS. I was smitten w/JK back in the day. Big-M is not quite as cute as JK but has the same nice body. I danced w/ her a little and she got the dance moves too w/ that smokin body.

Little-m is really cute (note I have a pic of her in my blog somewhere), and the history of the situation is that she kinda dissed us. I recall I asked for her and her friends cards and she claimed to not have one, which I feel is ridiculous but whatever. Then a while later Vig e-mails her to say hi and invite her to lunch since they work at the same company and he gets no response. She was a bit drunk tonight so I interrogate her Tombo-style to find out whats up w/ that.

So she says something along the lines of, why is he e-mailing me, whats his intention? I say, what do you mean, what do you think it is? He maybe is interested yep. So we banter about how Vig seems like a playboy maybe and I think ok maybe thats the problem? Then later M&m tell me how Vig was too forward, like he was too obviously looking for a GF (or to hit it) and they didn't like the neediness and obviousness they felt.

She also talked about how she likes guys who she really connects with mentally which she said is hard to find. I said yeah, thats true esp if you don't answer dudes e-mails and give them a chance so you can get to know them.

Interesting eh? Seems its so true, the paradox of dating... these girls want to be hit on, want to find a boyfriend/husband, and the guys want to meet and ask them out, but you can't be too direct or they think you're desperate, and while the girls are desperate they don't want to seem too desperate either. Amazing how it ever works out there in the game.

Thats why there are books written on "the game" -- because people are programmed by society to react in odd ways during courtship. They ignore a nice guy who is probably a great catch because they were too direct and showed they really liked them. Instead they want a guy to be a little interested but not that interested, but enough to spark their interest.. so on so on. weird let me tell ya.

Anyways it was fun conversing w/ these two M&m gals. Big-M was grinding it up w/ some white dude earlier. Litttle-m was talking to some fat 20yo punkass who I pushed out of my way to talk to her. Haha, too bad for that loser. I totally cock-blocked his ass.

Note I didn't drink tonight. If I go to clubs again I am going to avoid drinking, it makes it easier to a) remember girls, b) remember what happened, c) stay focused.