Oddly enough I had an encounter w/ a different pair of j-girls tonight named K&A. K&A I met thru Vig as well, as he is the source of many j-girls. I am doing some rekon now and finding out about their motivations.
What they told me is.. they like guys who are assertive and control the situation a bit. Ie, they don't like dudes who have no opinion on where to go eat, what to do this weekend, etc. They like to follow the lead it seems. Assertive dudes rule women which is well documented (in general).
Note, they also pointed out the same observation that M&M pointed out to me not 18hrs earlier, which is that they don't like guys who are so obviously looking for girls. Shockingly, they also pointed out Vig again as the example of a dude looking hard, and me as the counter example of the guy not looking. Maybe Vig and I need to split and merge to find the right blend.
Again the paradox of the situation which I pointed out to them is that they want an assertive guy, but not too assertive to be obvious in what he wants, but assertive enough. So its a fine line. Too much assertion and u are a desperate loser, too little and they wouldn't know you exist! Whats a simple man like me to do? Hah just find younger girls is one solution.
I must seem like a trustworthy dude 'cause usually this shit comes up w/married guys like Pagrig who they trust. Apparently I am falling out of the potential mate category w/ these girls and moving into trusted friend mode? Hmmm.. not sure but who cares these girls are cool as friends.
Also noted girls aint digging touchy-feely in public. Girls watch each other.. thus at past parties when anyone got a little close the other girls all noticed. Hmmmmmmmmmmmm....
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